Disciplining My Child

One of the hardest part on being a parent is to do disciplining. I want my son to be the best person that he can be and I am scared that I am not helping him to be one. Well,I am trying to do everything that I can for him to be a better person when he grows old. I know that kids can be so naughty sometimes and that I should understand and be so patient with my son but sometimes I really lose my patience,well,my patience can only be stretched that long. Whenever I hit my son,I really feel so guilty afterwards and yeah I only hit him when he really do not listen and it's making me lose my patience. Well,worrying for our children is really part of parenting,right?I just hope and Pray that my son will be a good person and not pasaway when he grows older.Right now,he is being a good boy it's just that sometimes he go on different way like other kids do,I guess it is just part of being a "Kid".

Signs that your child loves you

As your child gets older,he'll start keeping more of his emotions hidden, partly because of peer pressure and partly because the toddler method of expressing every passing feeling can be exhausting. Still, some older children are extremely generous with their affection.Even if your child doesn't hug you at every opportunity,the signs of love will still be there.Some kids are very confiding and will tell you everything,while others are by nature more likely to keep things inside. But as long as you're there when he needs you and are ready to listen, love will still flow in two directions.The needy,clingy love of early childhood is starting to become more rich and complicated. Your child now feels empathy for you and others, and he'll start to love you as a person, not just a caregiver. As a preschooler, he may enjoy spending one night at Grandma's house,but it won't be long before he's begging to come home.At the same time,he's starting to push for more independence,which means he needs your love and support now more than ever.
Even as your child strives to become his own person,he can't break the bond he has with you. You have a connection that goes back to before he was born a connection that's propped up by love, memories, and, yes, hormones...I wanna share to you the 7 signs on how to know that your child loves you...

1. Your newborn stares into your eyes — he's actually working hard to memorize your face. He doesn't understand anything else about the world, but he knows you're important.
2. Your baby thinks about you even when you're not around. Between 8 and 12 months old, he'll start to scrunch his face and look around when you leave the room — and he'll smile when you return.
3. Your toddler throws wicked tantrums. Nope, those screaming fits don't mean he's stopped loving you. He wouldn't be so hurt and angry if he didn't trust you so deeply.
4. Your toddler runs to you for comfort when he falls down or feels sad. Kids this age may not truly understand the meaning of "I love you," but their actions speak louder than words.
5. Your preschooler gives you a flower picked from the garden, a finger-painted heart, a sparkly rock, or another gift.
6. Your preschooler wants your approval. He'll start to be more cooperative around the house, and he'll look for chances to impress. "Look at me!" will become a catchphrase.
7. Your grade-schooler trusts you with secrets, like his first crush or his most embarrassing moment. You're his confidante, even if he shies away from your hugs in public.

I am sure our child loves us no matter what...I hope that what I have just shared is useful for you...thanks for reading!!!